Depth: More Detail

TYPES OF SOCIALIZING

Let us get into some more detail. Trust me it is not going to be boring instead a fun ride..whooooosshhh🎉🎇

Moving on, this rollercoaster ride🎢 will take you deeper into the roots of socialism and explain you the types of socializing.

So if we simplify the classification, here are the types:

1) Primary Socialization

- This is the stage where a child learns values and morals from his family and inculcates in himself/herself. These morals are displayed in order to live a cultured life.

Eg: If a boy or a girl hears his father or mother disrespecting a poor man then he/she would think that this behavior is socially acceptable and would tend to behave in the same way.

2) Secondary Socialization 

- This includes an individual's peer pressure and the values and attitude and belief that he adapts from a smaller group. Best example is of friends.

Eg: When a high school graduate gets influenced by his fellow mates and tends to get into wrong habits or may learn something valuable as well. It all depends on the company.

3) Developmental Socialization

- This involves a process where people develop social skills by involving a learning process by sharing their knowledge.

Eg: An introvert graduate starts a language class for young students in order to establish communication.

4) Positive Socialization

- It is a type of socialization wherein social learning takes places based on pleasurable and exciting experiences. We like to talk to people who fill ourselves with positivity and motivates that we can  overcomes our weaknesses.

5) Resocialization

- This involves forgetting your previous patterns and practices and adopting new ones for change. Resocialization is a major part of human life cycle.

Thank You

Peace💖

Travelling- An encounter

 TRAVELLING-AN ENCOUNTER WITH                                       NEW PEOPLE

Travelling in general if I say is exploring new places where in you pick your favorite place and get along on that path either with your family or friends or maybe alone. Some people love travelling. It makes you feel relaxed and lighten up your mood with a new atmosphere. Most importantly, you meet new people. You intend to learn the culture of that place when you meet the native people, you get to know about the food and lifestyle of the people. You even get to know various languages while you communicate with people. You may incorporate some of that in your own life  and this leads to change. Sometimes when you meet different people belonging to different places it directly leads to a sense of humanity and friendship as well.

Socializing by travel can be done by two ways:

1)  Self-Travel 

One way by which you socialize is by self travel because when you usually travel with your family. You spend quality time with them. You tend to go there to have some leisure time with your loved ones. While, you are travelling alone an entirely different environment for even the smallest of details you get to ask someone. This develops a connect where you eventually learn new things and establish communication with a person you hardly know. That's what we humans are for to help each other and not think of your own all the time.

2) Nature Camps🌄🌅

Other one is nature camps. Where you get introduced to the flora and fauna by professionals. So, in such camps you meet experts from numerous fields. You absorb and gain information from them. Like the bird watching camp organized in my city named the Ahmedabad Bird Watching Camp where there are people from age group 12-60. So, we learn a lot of things from not just elders over there but also from people younger than us. We meet the local village community living on the fringes of the forest. By this we relate how they survive in spite of not having any facilities. How they are satisfied with whatever they have.

Like this travelling just not means self enjoyment and exploring places but it also means exploring people and changes!

Thank You

Peace💖 

A GLIMPSE

A GLIMPSE: CONS OF SOCIALIZING❌

Everything has it's own pros and cons. For where something is good it does contain a negative aspect to it. Socializing on a larger scale has been an effective way to help people come out of their depression and anxiety. It even established a healthy relationship between humans.

But there have been some disadvantages if not handled the issue carefully😕😕

 

ADDICTION: Which takes places maximum in children where over socializing may lead to a bad company and thus distraction. Children tend to learn bad stuff and speak foul language.

Coming to adults over socializing sometimes maybe unknowingly leads to invading someone's privacy.

NOW, LET'S TAKE A VIEW ON SOME QUOTES ON SOCIALIZING.💭

Many actors, are introverts, and many introverts, when socializing

feel like actors.- Jonathan Rauch

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is a reaction, both are transformed.- Joyce Meyer 

 

 

Introverts and Socializing

SOCIALIZING: A CHALLENGE FOR                                INTROVERTS

As I have mentioned earlier about my silly problem, but wait it's not silly in fact it's serious! This really gets on my nerves when my friends want me to communicate with every person I know although it's just by their name and nothing else. Well, I have told them a several times that I cannot say anything more than hello maybe with some of them, I have a lot to say still can't!

Is this what many of us face and we tend to ignore it maybe because we are tired of trying. And the answer is yes. In this post, I will let you know what exactly happens, what are the consequences and solutions to those.

What exactly is happening❓

Okay, basically we get along the path right away with a firm determination to just rock the conversation but as soon as we see that person we freeze. Now in that case the only thing I do is give a pretty smile. There might be many reasons why this is happening:

1) You were about to talk but someone came in between and broke your link.

2) Or you like focusing on yourself and value me time.

3) You like to communicate only with one or two people whom you feel comfortable to.

4) You are knowledgeable and so confined in your space and want to gain more and more.

Consequences:💬

People might tend to ignore or sideline you thinking you are not interested but trust me if any of the four is happening with you it's normal. You can socialize even while continuing your introvert traits.  

Solutions:✅

- Practice communicating in front of the mirror.

- Try starting a communication by sharing your knowledge.

- Come out of your comfort zone and tell your close friends to start a conversation with new people by introducing you. 

- Give yourself a challenge.

This is to all introverts! Socializing is a challenge not a compulsion. If you try, you will succeed for it's important to talk to people sometimes for your pain to get out, at times for you to answer back people saying something wrong about you and when you get out to go for admissions or any job interviews you must be able to open yourself freely.

Thank You

Peace💖

  

It all starts with Family

FAMILY: THE SAFEST TREASURE♡

When we are born in this world, we are introduced to new people. Being a tiny baby, we absolutely don't know who they are but who knew in future they would mean the world to us. In this majestic world, we live two lives; one is outside our family and the other is our family. In this post we will be talking about the latter one, 

So before we make friends, did you ever realize the small you going in family function and weddings and receptions swinging happily in your dad's lap and getting fed by your mom. Relatives would just come give their blessing and go. What we actually do there is either seeing the decorations or playing with someone of our age whom we hardly know. Well, still that was fun. wasn't that? As we grew up we got our social group, our friends to hang out that we strictly deny going anywhere in a social function with our parents. That's start to end my case, I say,'' It's going to be boring, there's no one of my age and what am I going to do there?''

I will share one of experiences of recent times which will help you realize that it might seem a little boring but it is great fun as well as learning.

Last year, in grade ninth, I had this one-day picnic. almost the whole standard was present. We guys enjoyed a lot but totally exhausted with all the screams, songs and dance, my parents came to pick me up and said that I need to quickly change and dress because we were supposed to be going in a reception. Yes, I was of course shattered at this fact. Hahaha! But had to go. 

Well, I realized it was not that boring meeting people of your family, though for the first time. It actually was a learning. We could always learn our culture, our traditions, and more of our religion when we socialize with our family. Asking your cousins how is their life is not bad always! We could inherit morals when we have conversations with the elders. 

So always look at the glass which is half full. It gives a better picture and hence a better view of life! 

Thank you                                                                                                                                  Peace💖  

IMPACT OF COVID

COVID DEVASTATED SOCIAL LIFE

I agree with the fact that Covid was a tit for tat for human beings. Though it led to deaths of innocent people, dreadful situations in families, financial crisis and most importantly isolating one from the world. We are were locked in our houses just like a prisoner is locked behind the bars. But isn't it true that just like a prisoner is punished for his misdeeds we were punished for ours? And this was a result of human activities? Human nature? Human's avarice? Well, truly. But it led an unfortunate and undemanding impact on our lives which is what I would like to throw some light on in this post.  

Coming to our social lives. It was perfect before Covid. I guess you remember how we spent once in a week inside the theatre, twice in a month staying at our grandma's place became a traditional ritual in every Indian house, attending marriages no matter whose wedding it is or how far your relation is with that person we will be going just to satisfy our yearn for  gratuitous delicacies. Right after returning from school we would just keep our bag pack on the bed, grab and stuff food in our mouths and run to play with our friends. School is a place to learn new things but our moto was to only chit-chat with friends and get a tight scolding from the teacher. So this proves before covid we were more open and relaxed to people and our surroundings.

Post covid, I guess some superficial power vanished all these stuff. We don't play anymore with living people, instead we play with video games. When we chat with our friends on phones and laptop it seems we are talking to them and not to our friends. 

There's a thought here:

The more we talk with humans, the less we feel stressed cause if gadgets could understand our emotions, God would not have created humans!

We have isolated ourselves so much that the only person we love and care about is ourselves. Earlier people used to have the connection with plants, nature if not with person. Still they felt warm and touched by nature’s presence. But, nowadays we are so in love with our screens that we do not really understand or even feel the presence of a living being standing in front of us trying to communicate. We get so indulged in self-enjoyment and we do not realize that thinking about ourselves will do no good to anybody but if we think about others would do good to both, to the person and you yourself. It’s a conflict between mind and heart. Your mind wants isolation and gadgets. Your heart wants peace and that urge to talk to someone gets overpowered by your mind.

This is what all of us are facing on a regular basis. It might have been a problem for some since a long time but post covid this has been a consistent and unvarying issue for majority. 

Rewinding back to our three A’s what I believe is that we all have accepted this change that took place after covid but we have not adapted and accepted it. If we totally want to evaporate these changes from our lives then we really need to adapt and accept it and then only could we be able to disappear the print that covid left on us and reminisce the span before covid which was priceless! 

Thank You                                                                                                                                  Peace💖  

 

WELCOME POST!

Hello readers! 

I welcome you all to my blog which is going to help people realize the real meaning of socializing, its impact in our lives and its significance.

I myself am a totally reserved and a shy person. I am like "Hello" and that's it!😅 My conversation with people be it family or friends starts here and drastically ends here.😬

But being social isn't just limited to talking. It's a connect that you have with people which either makes you love them, care for them and eventually makes you happy and realize that you are not alone in this vast human sphere!

I will take you on a ride by narrating a story to brief you with my approach of writing this blog!

Daniel was an obedient boy who went to school everyday but could not interact neither with his teachers nor with his fellow classmates. His urge always was to focus on his academics. Even if he had doubts regarding studies, he was unable to ask his teachers. His parents thought this was huge problem. Daniel even would not attend birthday parties, family functions or any crowded place. His only issue was communication. He eventually ended up getting depressed and dejected. His behavior changed. He was stuck to screen all the time. This deteriorated his performance. One day his mother made him realize that being social does not just mean to talk and ask for someone's well being. It is a system of three A's 

ADAPT,ACCEPT,ADJUST. It is to learn from people and improve yourself.

SO, IN THE UPCOMING POSTS WE WOULD BE TALKING ABOUT THIS VERY SAME ISSUE THAT POEPLE FACE AND HOW TO DEAL WITH IT!

Thank you!

Peace💖