Introverts and Socializing

SOCIALIZING: A CHALLENGE FOR                                INTROVERTS

As I have mentioned earlier about my silly problem, but wait it's not silly in fact it's serious! This really gets on my nerves when my friends want me to communicate with every person I know although it's just by their name and nothing else. Well, I have told them a several times that I cannot say anything more than hello maybe with some of them, I have a lot to say still can't!

Is this what many of us face and we tend to ignore it maybe because we are tired of trying. And the answer is yes. In this post, I will let you know what exactly happens, what are the consequences and solutions to those.

What exactly is happening❓

Okay, basically we get along the path right away with a firm determination to just rock the conversation but as soon as we see that person we freeze. Now in that case the only thing I do is give a pretty smile. There might be many reasons why this is happening:

1) You were about to talk but someone came in between and broke your link.

2) Or you like focusing on yourself and value me time.

3) You like to communicate only with one or two people whom you feel comfortable to.

4) You are knowledgeable and so confined in your space and want to gain more and more.

Consequences:💬

People might tend to ignore or sideline you thinking you are not interested but trust me if any of the four is happening with you it's normal. You can socialize even while continuing your introvert traits.  

Solutions:✅

- Practice communicating in front of the mirror.

- Try starting a communication by sharing your knowledge.

- Come out of your comfort zone and tell your close friends to start a conversation with new people by introducing you. 

- Give yourself a challenge.

This is to all introverts! Socializing is a challenge not a compulsion. If you try, you will succeed for it's important to talk to people sometimes for your pain to get out, at times for you to answer back people saying something wrong about you and when you get out to go for admissions or any job interviews you must be able to open yourself freely.

Thank You

Peace💖